TEN THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER ASK TO ANYBODY.

 

BY PHILIP CHALIL

When it comes to social interactions, there are some questions that are best left unasked. While some of these questions might seem harmless or even curious, they can be hurtful, invasive, or downright rude. Here are ten things you should never ask anybody:

1. "How much do you weigh?" - This is a question that many people find uncomfortable or triggering. Weight can be a sensitive topic, and people might feel judged or self-conscious about their body image.

2. "Are you pregnant?" - Unless someone has explicitly told you that they are expecting a child, never assume that someone is pregnant. Asking this question can be hurtful, especially if the person is struggling with fertility or has recently experienced a miscarriage.

3. "Why are you still single?" - This question can come across as judgmental or condescending. It implies that being single is a negative thing and puts pressure on the person to justify their relationship status.

4. "What's your religion?" - Religion is a personal and often private matter. Unless you are in a setting where discussing religion is appropriate, it's best to avoid this question.

5. "How much money do you make?" - Salary is another sensitive topic that many people prefer to keep private. Asking this question can be intrusive and make the person feel uncomfortable.

6. "Why don't you have kids?" - Similar to the question about being single, this question can be hurtful to people who are struggling with fertility issues or have chosen not to have children for personal reasons.

7. "What's your sexual orientation?" - Again, unless you are in a setting where discussing sexuality is appropriate, this question can be invasive and make the person feel uncomfortable.

8. "Have you gained weight?" - This question is not only rude but can also be triggering for people who struggle with body image issues or eating disorders.

9. "Why did you get divorced?" - Divorce is a personal matter, and asking someone to explain the reasons behind their divorce can be hurtful and invasive.

10. "When are you going to have kids?" - Similar to the question about why someone doesn't have kids, asking when someone is planning to have children can be hurtful and intrusive.

In general, it's best to avoid asking questions that are overly personal or invasive. Before asking a question, consider whether it's appropriate for the setting and the relationship you have with the person. If in doubt, err on the side of caution and avoid asking the question altogether. Instead, focus on building a positive and respectful relationship with the person, based on trust and mutual respect.